We have all heard the expression ‘you never get a second chance to make a good first impression’. And when it comes to dating, this age-old adage certainly rings true. Whether we realise it or not, style, appearance and presentation all influence the way we think and feel about each other.

The balancing act behind true beauty

This article will explore the difficult balancing act between accentuating your natural inner beauty versus physical good looks, particularly in the tricky world of dating.

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Beauty is only skin deep

Nearly all women turn to cosmetics at some stage or another, whether it’s for a splash of lipstick or a lick of mascara. Applied in the right proportions, makeup can accentuate our natural features and give us a much-needed boost of confidence about the way we look.

When it comes to dating, a little extra self-esteem can go a long way. But it’s important to remember that physical beauty isn’t everything. While first impressions are valuable, looks are not the most important factor. Bad table manners or poor conversation skills are far more likely to turn off a new date than forgetting to put on your false eyelashes.

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Be comfortable in yourself

When asked about the qualities that men find attractive in women, one of the most common answers is confidence. That and a good sense of humour are two ways to create a winning combination in most men’s eyes.

Without a doubt the best way to give the impression of confidence is to actually feel confident. It’s important to consider whether your wear makeup as a confidence boost or if, in fact, you hide behind it?

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Working on your self-esteem is a great way to improve your confidence. Some of the simple ways you can enhance the way you think and feel about your self-worth include improving your posture, increasing your fitness levels or learning a new skill or hobby.

These are all great ways to help you feel like a more well-rounded person, rather than feeling like someone who needs to hide.

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Showing the real you

Makeup trends come and go, from ruby red lips to a bronzed summer glow. But just because the glossy magazines are pushing a particular look, it’s not necessarily the style for you. Don’t feel pressured to recreate heavy makeup styles, just because they seem in vogue at the time.

Not only do many men often find heavy makeup styles like smoky eyes confusing, the looks often don’t work in everyday life away from the catwalk or red carpet.

Instead of worrying about your shade of rouge, think about celebrating your inner beauty instead. These are the sorts of qualities that will help you to truly click with another person. It’s for this reason that online dating sites, like www.eharmony.co.uk, specialise in matching couples based on their compatibility and shared interests.

Your personality, your hobbies and your core values are the vital qualities that will allow you to meet your perfect match.

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